Monday, August 15, 2016

Missing Marvelous...The Things a Boy Misses




I Miss...


Haircuts in the garage

Golfing

Hunting / Stopping for something at the gas station on the way to Eureka

Camping and 4 wheeler rides

My greatest example of reverence, patience and hard work

Going on plumbing jobs

Flicking water after washing hands

Talking to himself on plumbing jobs

"Pooooosibly, pooooosibly"

The sighs

Cafe Rio together and at times making his burrito for him

"HEY! How-are-ya"

That distinct feeling of fingers on my head

Play time as kids, and the distinct feeling of his beard on my skin

Waking up to my thumb being smacked out of my mouth

Naps on the couch

Simply sitting down and talking

The rolling of the eyes

Finding out how tall I am with the tape measure

"KYLE, LANE, ANNA!"

Simple teachings during FHE

Those hands

Evening trips to Carl's Junior

Visiting grandma and grandpa all together

The bicep bounce

The approving "Alright!" with a smile

Vacations and stays in hotels

The best pancakes

Sunday walks and visits to members

Hearing snoring

German milk ("Goo-n-col")

The help I got with my Rube Goldberg (poking the book) :)

Habitual knuckle popping

Watching him connect with others

"Because I said so."

Washing golf clubs in the sink

The approving nod after I would return home from a haircut

"You admiring yourself in the mirror?"

The old work truck

My Bishop

"In one ear, out the other"

Tickling my feet

"Thank you, thank you very much" (Elvis)

Hearing those slow footsteps creaking above me

The milk carton or cold sodas on the back of my neck

"Thas-right"

Golf Channel

"Hasta Luigi, Mario!"

Being rushed by two snaps

Zoom

Fathers and sons / Campouts

The many ways of saying "Hello" on the phone

Runs to the supply house

"You're slower than grandma!"

Ritz, cheese and salami while watching TV

The 'hurry up' mannerism with the beckoning hand signal and pursed lips

Our personal plumber

Hearing my mom scream and knowing he was home

Someone pulling my blanket off of me

Having oatmeal made for me with the milk cap used to measure the milk

A silent wave from the other side of the room

That tone of voice saying "It was AWEsome!"

Barking spiders / buck snorts

Poking into my collar bone and saying "What's that?"

The sarcastic "Goooosh!"

The country swing King

"Didn't bother me!"

Softball - watching games and playing together

The one who always finished their dinner first

The slow-paced use of technology

Perfect counsel

Night-time knuckles

"Baah" (Bye)

Castle Dale

"Thaaat's good" when saying 'that's enough or plenty'

Ordinances done with or by him

Those offers to trade how much money is in our wallets

Basketball

"Are ya just gonna stand there with the fridge door open?"

Bear hugs

Putting in the family room

Getting a laugh from me

The interpreter of Kyle's letters

The stern glare of disapproval

Dropping off breakfast in the office on Sundays

That wide-eyed, taken-back look

The one who knew the most about cars and machines out of all of us

Games - Thirty one, Tri-Ominoes, Texas Hold'em, Monopoly, Farkle

The sprinkler maintenance man

Late night ice cream

"Earth to Laaaaane"

Pokes with a fart sound

The intensified "Yes!" during an intense sporting event (with fist pump)

"Git-tuh-bed!"

Hearing someone slowly walking down the stairs

Being told I'm such a dork

The grill guy

"What'd ya do that for??"

TF Squared

A very fearful, humbling, protective yet effective temper

Seeing the truck in the garage and knowing he's home

"Let's go!"

Sharing chips and salsa

That ability of spotting a deer no matter where it was

The neighborhood snow plower

Silent reading

Peanut butter and honey / jelly sandwiches

Someone listening to me

"It was goooood" (Food)

Searching the house for him when coming home from school

"Green means go!"

Someone turning the light on

The one I learned from to put milk in first before the cereal

Inside jokes between the family

The other milk drinker

The fine line between joking and nonsense

Being scared to death after almost being pushed off the ledge I was standing on

Those mornings with the complete breakfasts he made

Trusting in such great driving skills

Being told I'm so lucky after saying 'I have to work today'

That tone of voice offering a prayer

"Cow went dry"

Logical explanations

'Empty Plumbing'

Marvelous

"How's your sugar with your oatmeal?"

Quiet early-morning drives in the truck

The one who knew how to open letters the right way

Stories - Childhood, Mission, Mom

NCIS, 24, Ghost Whisperer, White Collar

Driving the golf kart together

"Hi-ho-hi-ho"

That laugh and chuckle / Laughing

 Toe-tapping to upbeat music (sometimes with the head bob)

The shaking of the head

The "fag" voice :)

The pose on the stand (two fingers on side of head, thumb under chin, other fingers covering mouth)

Fake sucker punches when you least expected them

Being called Bongo, Bed-head, Mop-top, Goof-troop, Feebee (FBI), Goober

"Whut"

Reaction-speed tests with fast smacks

Soft quiet singing in the car

"Money money money MUUUNAY!"

NASCAR Sundays

The laundry man

Waking up on weekend mornings to pancakes and music playing such as George Straight, Alan Jackson, Toby Keith, The Eagles and Bryan Adams

Combing my hair over so sharp on Sundays

Help with brain teasers and problem solving

Little cat-calls when I looked good

"He's aliiiive"

Drink runs at McDonald's

Quietness

Walking in during personal prayer

French toast

Seeing a hand on the back side of the couch as I walked upstairs

"You're jumpy"

Hearing the door close every morning

Shooting out west

Seeing my parents' hands together in between the driver and passenger seat

Rolling down the windows a crack

The rodeo together

Our tennis matches

Home teaching

"Yahoooo!"

"Let's eat!!!" or "Vamos a comer!"

Playing with my hair the last night together

The one who could admit that others were better than him

All of those hats

"Rrribit"

Finding all of the Ferguson invoices in the mail

Driving me to school

My Coach

Showing no fear

The hereditary "Mm-hmm"

Seeing the computer being used off of the reflection of the picture in the hallway

The cake thief ("More for me!")

Putting contests for a drink

Two-finger-typing

Birthday lickens

The body clock that could change to 'bed time' in an instant

"You spill, you die."

Jokes about killing/skinning/eating Penny

"I'll trade ya!"

Watching my brother grow closer to him than I did with talking, stories, experiences

"Did you brush your hair and comb your teeth?"

"Ah-choo my food"

"You know, a light would help"

Being thrown upward to the ceiling

"Red rice, red riiice!"

The exquisite fine art of graham crackers with frosting in milk

Haystacks a la Marv

Working on Taco Bell together / Using heavy machinery for the first time together to accomplish a job

The only one who would obviously get annoyed with my tapping

Ocassional video games together

Singing the bass line in church

Going to the movies

Help with my math homework

The only person I knew who listened more than they talked


...My Dad

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The Advice of Dad


"Prayer is always the right answer to any question"

"There are three certain things to happen in life: Death, change, and The Atonement"

"Thompson family, together forever"

"The most important decision you will make in this life is who you will marry"

"Listen, learn, obey, ok"

"It's better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it"

"Finish the job"

"The more I study the more I know.  The more I know, the more I forget.  The more I forget, the more I don't know...so I study."

"It's better to work with your mind than your body"

"The body is just the shell of the soul"

"It's better to look up"

"Wear out your knees when you pray"

"I've seen the best missionaries come back home and fall, making you say, 'They struggled with that?'"

"You're not alone"

"Work hard, play hard"

"Wait for the edges to dry before flipping the pancake"

"Always stay behind the person with the gun"

"Where the head goes, the body follows"

"Divorce is NOT an option"

"Look down the road plenty of seconds while driving"

"Let the lawn mower pull you"

"Try to tie the tie with the seams at your neck"

"Cut the water heater box along the corners"

"Water expands"

"Love is selfless service"

"The moment you see tail lights, foot off the gas"

"If you put it down on paper, there's no way I could have not been in debt, but because I payed my tithing, I have been blessed"

"Cruise control is more fuel efficient because it can keep the accelerator more still than your foot"

"The more pot-holes you hit is more wear and tear on your car"

"Cover their eyes when they try to make a lay-up"

"You don't have to hit the ball hard to make it go far, you just have to hit it right"

"Let the haystacks boil to dissolve the sugar"

"Use your hunting walk"

"Make your drink last"

"Because I know I'm not the slowest driver, nor the fastest, I drive in the middle lane"

"Stay close to your side going around blind corners"

"Don't stand too far back in the outfield"

"You should slow down a little at every intersection"

"Do not let the jackhammer tip over"

"You can't have a ziplock bag full of single parts of a disassembled watch, and throw all of the parts out of the bag and expect to have a full working watch connect together in the end.  That's why The Big Bang Theory is false."

 "Oatmeal acts like glue"

"Practice shooting on your bed, the ones that go straight up would have gone in"

"There's a difference between a scary movie and an evil movie"

"Peel stickers off slowly"

"Compact the mashed potatoes when they're finished so the heat doesn't get out"

"Whenever my parents gave me money for a trip, I tried to save it all"

"Rub away the pain"

"If we were to do this right, we would start out with a prayer"

"If you're not sure what the speed limit is, 50 in the country and 30 in the city"

"Fold your suit pants from the bottom along the creases"

"How well you do in school determines if you go to a good college, or a dumb-dumb college"




Mom thought of a few more...

"Let's go" or "Way to go, Coca Mo Joe."

"Hey, You, Hassamoto!"

His slow saunter that often prompted the "What's your hurry?"

The ability to back up a trailer in a tight spot.

The one-arm shoulder lean-in at the pulpit.

Golf tan lines.

Sunglasses on the brim of his hat.

Perty, ain't it?

Good. Trade.

Like a glooove.

"Hurry back; we might learn to like ya."

"See ya when we see ya, and not before."







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